Amelia ([info]abka) wrote,
@ 2009-06-24 22:21:00
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Current mood: disappointed
Entry tags:body

I just don't know people
Two things that are making me sad about the world right now:

We have the shaming of a sexual abuse survivor by a member of the lj community. (Warning: Very explicit discussion of sexual assault and the nature, anatomy, cause & effect of triggers. Is itself triggery.) Via [info]giddygeek's post here.

It makes me so angry and so sad that someone can treat another person (who has shared a deeply personal part of themselves in an effort to educate people about triggering) with such cruelty.

Apparently we're beyond discussing the distinction between rude and hurtful and need to cover treating other people like human beings.

If that wasn't bad enough we have a hateful, misogynistic ad campaign designed to prey upon women's insecurities and reinforce the idea that we should use and hate each other (and of course ourselves). (Warning, potentially triggery for body image stuff.) The women in the ads look like regular, attractive people (the woman in the pink dress in particular is rocking it out). Cue more anger. I do not understand how this ad campaign came to be. The copy. OMG really. No one, no one, realized what a horrible, horrible thing this is. And it's aimed at women. At women! WTF world.

eta: I think I learned about Abercrombie's douchery in college, but since I'm posting about shaming and bodies, here's another example.



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Gag
[info]leyba
2009-06-26 04:34 pm UTC (link)
Oh my...

First, thanks for sharing these.

Second, I feel sick.

:-(

Incidentally, it looked like a couple of the women's images in the Bacardi ads were digitally manipulated. Glad to see the company shut the site down. I hope whoever was responsible was summarily fired. I was just about to never buy their rum again. I'll take their word for it, but I am still disgusted by humanity.

Edited at 2009-06-26 04:35 pm UTC

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[info]lifeinlondon
2009-06-28 01:25 pm UTC (link)
Those Bacardi ads make my skin crawl. Uggh.

And the other person blows my mind. What kind of a heartless douche do you have to be to read about the abuse someone suffered for 16 years and then accuse that person of victimizing themselves? Disgusting. I hope that person feels really bad.

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[info]lifeinlondon
2009-06-28 01:42 pm UTC (link)
Great icon, btw - is that Barbara Kruger?

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[info]abka
2009-06-28 03:18 pm UTC (link)
Great icon, btw - is that Barbara Kruger?

Thanks, yes it is.

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